Five Signs Your Partner Is Cheating
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by: PaulineStradlen
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1. A large majority of cheaters will do so in their own beds at some point during a relationship. If you think your partner may have cheated on you in your own bed, or may still be doing it, here is a good tip. Make your bed in a particular way that is different from the normal way you do it, if your husband has been using at he will have made it afterwards, and you will be able to tell.
2. Enlist one of your girlfriends to help. Make sure it is one that he doesn't know, then get her to hit on him and have her record it. The easiest way to do this is to have her call you answering service just before she starts talking to him, and then you can have the proof on call so to speak.
3. Your husband will definitely take advantage if he is left alone for a weekend. So to set another trap tell him that you will be away all weekend, give him precise times for when you are leaving and when you will be back. Then say goodbye and find a good spot where you'll be able to watch your house, all you have to do now is wait and see.
4. Pay attention to all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check the credit card statements, bank withdrawals, and receipts, make sure you check for any unusual transactions. These can be obvious such as motel room receipts or gift shops from which you have never received a gift. However, he may be more cunning than this, so check all cash withdrawals, your husband may pay for things with cash to avoid leaving receipts that you might find. If he is withdrawing sums of money at the same time each week or month, then there is a chance he is using it to pay for a room with his other lover.
5. Monitor both his cell phone and your home phone. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Watch how he uses his phone, does he answer it then move out of your earshot, does he take it everywhere with him, including the bathroom. Note whether returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons, or if he always turns off his cell phone when he's with you.
If, after all this you still do not have sufficient evidence to confront your husband, you can try bluffing him. Say something along the lines of, I know what you've been doing and I'll give you one last chance to confess and tell me everything. You may find that he will break down and give you all the information you want, but he will more than likely lie to the end.
Rest assured though that he will screw up sooner or later you just need to be patient and watchful. The easiest way to do this is to hire a private investigator, however, this can be expensive and will also add to your guilt if your partner is not cheating. My advice is to start off by looking for these signs then if you feel it is necessary move onto the next step.
About the Author
Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and runs a website for people who thinks their husband might be cheating . To track your partners phone calls visit http://www.answersabc.com
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