The True Cost Of Divorce Can Be Hidden

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After the glow of the honeymoon fades and the chime of the wedding bells has faded away, a newly-wed couple has dreams of a life spent together, forever. Unfortunately, this fairy-tale happiness is not a guarantee, and affairs, money problems, or emotional distress can lead to one party or the other looking to a divorce as a solution.

These days, our society accepts divorce as an unfortunate but accepted reality of married life. While annulments have been around for centuries, divorces are different. Divorce is a way of ending a marriage, without the death of a spouse, while a more traditional annulment declared that a marriage was void from the beginning.

In response to a variety of problems, couples may turn to divorce as a \"quick, easy and cheap\" solution to their relationship problems. However, people often jump to this option without realizing the cost of a divorce, in both emotional and financial terms.

Many couples see divorce as quick and easily handled, but the reality is quite different; some divorces stretch out for a long time, with the average taking about two years.

Also, while the price of a divorce lawyer ranges widely, most experts would say that the average lies around $3,000 each for a one-day trial; again, more than many people would expect.

Also, many people about to go through a divorce often underestimate the cost of splitting up that doesn't appear at first glance. New mortgage payments or rent, a change in car or health insurance, the cost of a move to a new city or region, and of course child support or alimony, can all make a divorce a very costly thing to endure financially.

Then there's the emotional cost of the whole ordeal that could lead to serious psychological problems. Divorce process encourages the focus of the past. Past mistakes, past problems and past disagreements. This diverts the attention of the present, resulting both parties slide to deeper anger and discontent with each other, reinforcing the problem rather than finding a solution.

One other misunderstanding people often have when they think of divorce is that they misappropriate the blame, faulting the other person, which leads to feelings of resentment and a victim mentality. This outlook can easily cause a person to feel helpless and even become clinically depressed.

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