The Signs of A Cheating Boyfriend You Don't Want to Overlook
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by: AliciaAdams
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In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in "family values", a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!
Statistically the average relationship has about a 50% chance of infidelity. Does this seem too high? Originally I thought so. But then again, I also realized I was in a small minority of people who actually do something about it.
Okay, you're doing research on this topic so you're already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You've seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.
It's an emotional roller-coaster. But this roller-coaster isn't scary in the conventional analogy. This is that roller-coaster at the annual state fair that you are terrified for your physical safety. You are scared for your life that it will fall apart and ultimately end in your demise.
There are many times in our lives where we know we have to take action but we are scared. We want to move forward so badly, but just can't find the strength to do it. This makes us feel pretty miserable, but yet we still seem to live with this fear and misery, even though we have the power to overcome it.
TAKE CHARGE! This is the only life you get. You have the power (at least you did at one time). Take control again, regain your confidence and begin living your life again.
- Rolling in at 6:00 am is more than a long days work. It's a long night of thinking how he is going to explain to you where he's been all this time.
- Your once raging sex life has all but completely disappeared.
- Does your boyfriend fall under the repeat offender list when it comes to unfaithful behavior? Perhaps you have a clue already that you haven't looked into. Depending on your man's stories about past relationships this could be valuable evidence in building your case.
- Is eye contact becoming a scarcity? The guilt can play tricks on a guys mind, enough so where he acts over confident, but yet can't seem to look you in the eye.
- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.
- Check the records. The proof is in the paper. Look for receipts that don't make sense. Is he buying lip gloss at the convenience store but he doesn't even wear chapstick. Think about it. Enough said.
- Do you find him using the computer more often than before? Does he have a sudden interest in MySpace, but yet won't let you see his profile or his page. Does he smile a lot when on the computer then switch pages suddenly when you walk in the room?
- Ah yes, The ever so popular cell phone! Any new trends in his usage or lack thereof? How about texting, or vibrating ringer. How about not answering calls? Out of all the signs of a cheating boyfriend, this is one of the easiest to pick up on and get proof of infidelity.
- Do you find inconsistency in his stories and his friend's stories. Men aren't the best at communicating to begin with, try getting them to tell the same lie in perfect unison
- Do you feel like you are trying to preserve something and constantly chasing a fading memory of happiness? Has everything changed? It is always possible your man has evolved into an even bigger jackass and there is nothing else to it! On the other hand maybe there is!! In either case, signs of a cheating boyfriend or not, it's time to move on.
***Warning*** We still have to build a solid case against our suspect. Any attempt at questioning now will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women we often think we have more than enough evidence yet since we cannot predict how our potential scum-bag of a boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared and satisfied with our evidence to avoid any untrue responses/excuses.
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The writings on the wall and you see the signs of a cheating boyfriend everywhere. Now what?
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