Cheating On Trust
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by: AlexArcher
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Children may feel a sense of guilt for their parent cheating. Many times children will blame themselves for the problems of their parents because they think that their actions may be the cause of their parents. They can become confused, angry, sad, and distrusting.
Many children get a sense of security from a strong relationship between their parents. Once their mother and father start exhibiting negative behavior towards one another, children may intentionally misbehave as they become insecure about their future. Even the possibility of an affair can be enough to affect the way a child acts.
When an affair occurs, family dynamics also change. Siblings may act out against one another, often aggressively; and emotional detachment between family members is certain. Brothers and sisters may not trust one another, and they may also blame each other for what is going on.
The stability of a loving home disappears when someone cheats. Both parents may create a facade, but most children are capable of seeing the falsehood. This increases the overall level of stress. The attempts to make the situation better actually make it worse, leaving the children feeling unloved and vulnerable.
Many children whose parents have been unfaithful go on in life to have problems in relationships of their own. They may have ingrained feelings of mistrust and jealousy, which can affect their faith in their partner. They also may believe they are destined to suffer the same consequences as their parents.
Infidelity can also cause a relationship break between the parent and the child. They may feel anger towards them because they feel as if the parent did this to them, abandoned them. The wounds may heal but more than likely they will never completely heal. The child, even into adulthood, will always remember what happened and wonder.
The battle is not over for couples who work through the affair and choose to stay married rather than getting a divorce. Their children will still suffer well after the act of infidelity has ended. Children may live in a constant state of wondering when and if their parent may cheat again. They will need help working through the aftermath of the affair as well.
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