Cheating On Our Kids
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by: AlexArcher
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The ten commandments in the bible list infidelity as a big no-no in the eyes of the man upstairs. That tells us that even in biblical times many a married person was stricken with a case of the wandering eye. Adulterers of ancient times were often met with public humiliation at best and a horrible death at the hands of the public worst.
We like to think of ourselves as evolved since then, but the truth is that many of the same societal problems plague us as they did our ancestors. The repercussions after an infidelity can reach far and wide and effect all the friends and family members involved.
No one is affected moreso than any children involved. Their parents are role models for how they are to act and treat others when they reach adulthood. Seeing one parent treat the other in a duplicitious and deceitful manner does not give them a good foundation about the appropriate ways to treat people.
Extra marital affairs quite often end in the divorce courts. This weakens the moral fibre of our country. If the solemn vows of marriage are viewed on a \"when it suits me\" basis, it erodes the reasons for making a marriage work.
Maybe more a more common way of dealing with infidelity is to try and work the marriage out and not tell the children of a parent's philandering ways. Often these marriages become bitter vicious circles of mistrust and anger and provide a poor example of how adults should act and what life as a family should be.
Deceit and duplicity, encountered in their own family and all the way up to the Whitehouse provide a skewed learning environment. Our children are our future and to immerse them in weak and deceitful relationships bodes ill for our society's future.
All in our society should make it their common goal to be faithful when they get married. It will help the people ofour nation become healthier and happier people and give our children secure environments in which to grow up .
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