Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - II
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by: VinDiCarlo
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The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.
But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.
Plus, it's illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.
It is always to your loss if you attack another person because the police always win.
You are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON! if you are thinking about it.
Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
I recall all the girls I missed out on because I was afraid about some DUDE. And it makes me mad remembering that and knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!
When time comes that you're on your deathbed, you are going to reminisce on all the things you did and didn't do. How painful would it be to say "I didn't meet that woman because I was worried of the other guy she's with," or "there were a lot of beautiful that I could have enjoyed, but I didn't even try to approached them because I saw them TALKING to another guy.
I don't want to happen that to you.
So let's look at this on a deeper level. Seeing another guy as more dominant means you don't truly understand dominance.
You see, you instantly consider yourself NOT dominant when you're concerned with who is more dominant. There's a better focus.
You must first THINK like a dominant man in order to become dominant. And dominant men doesn't care who is more dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is that they are doing or want.
So you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Instead of worrying about whether or not he's more dominant than you, focus on the girls.
It's proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn't even know the guy - they just meet him.
Or if they do know the guy, it's because he was a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.
It's rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
And aside from that, if he IS with one of the girls, then it will be a fair game because it means that he's NOT with the other girls.
When you are concerned with who's the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.
Have your focus in a USEFUL place and don't assume anything. And don't let some random guy prevent you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!
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