The Game: "Picking up a "10
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by: VinDiCarlo
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But before anything else, let's go waaaay back...
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn't look away)...
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.
First thing, the idea about "10" is just a myth. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more "valuable" just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The only true "10" is the one that's perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10's in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.
But of course there are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the other. And they are treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
As I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me explain it.
You shouldn't treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
More than anything else, a woman values a guy that appreciates her personality.
Now for the benefits of yours, I'll give you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10's. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)
Now high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
And here's another interesting thing. These women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here's the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
You'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level - it's what I call the Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently...you'll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are lot of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin
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