The #1 Texting Tip To Successful Flirting
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by: TylerTray
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Women
Most people will say that women have it easy when it comes to texting. That's because men do the approaching... and women probably send 100 times more text messages than men which makes women better at communicating.
On the other hand, when it comes to sending flirty text messages, women seem to mess up on the same subject time and time again. It mainly has to do with sending boring one-liners that have no real pull to respond back. I am sure a lot of men have run into this problem before - you will send her a message such as, "Hey whats up?" "How did that biking trip go for you?" and then she will send something like "It was good." Now, if the woman is trying to move on and not get involved with this guy, then she's doing awesome. But if she's interested in the guy, she is ruining her chances with each boring text message response. She's as if putting up a sign stating, "if you want to have fun move on to some other girl. I AM BORING." A good response has a little attractive chase or at least has some line to respond back to. For instance, a woman could write back, "ya I loved it, but I am not used to wearing those biker short... they are so tight on me." With a message like this, the guy will be day-dreaming about you, become more attracted to you and is an idiot not to respond back. But most importantly, it has a flirty tone to it.
Men
As mentioned before, the roles and principles in texting are the same as communicating in real life. It's just a simplified and easier system. The only problem a man runs into is not being able to see the result from their text messages. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, time and time again, I have seen inexperienced men produce the same poor results and not even realize what's happening.
What usually happens is that most men go into default mode when they text women and send messages to women like they are sending messages to friends. Men burn themselves by sending these normal, day-to-day conversation words like "how are you?" "I am out of class, that teacher was boring." "What are you doing?" These messages are boring, they do nothing to women and your success with them goes down the drain.
If you were to take anything from this article, it's this: send messages that create a feeling. Let's take those last messages above and make them more emotionally charged, "hey you, I got something to show you, are you free?" "hey, I am in class right now, but this teacher totally reminds of you except she has a cuter hair cut :)" the results you get from messages like this are worth more than you can imagine.
You don't get on a roller coaster because it's boring, you get on it because you know you are going to feel something. A woman will text you and desire you if you can create that same roller coaster feeling.
About the Author
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