Pick Up Lines: The Social Opener

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This article is part of a series of tips on "pick-up lines" that I am releasing for free to the public. In a social environment, there are several different ways to begin a conversation with a woman. While you may think you need the perfect first impression, your opening line does not have to be as clever as you think. If you are friendly and fun and non-needy, women will be happy to talk to you even if your opener is simple. The Social Opener, popularized by Mehow, may be all you need to start getting attraction.

Let me give you some examples of the social opener:

"Hey guys,"

"You guys look fun, I had to say hi"

"You guys look fun, are you friendly?"

"You guys have a cool energy, I just wanted to see what you were like."

"Hey, how's it going?"

While all these openers are short, some are very straightforward, and some may be "out there," when commenting on a girl's energy. No matter which one you use, you must come in looking happy and content with your night already. You are facing the group, but not bending forward, even if they have trouble hearing you or vice versa. You're just having a good time and helping others do the same.

I can hear your question, why are we saying "guys" instead of "girl"? "Guys" is a more unisex term, so we use that to imply that the girls are just some of the many we will talk to that night, and that we're not seeking out anything romantic or sexual. This helps you get in more under the radar, and girls will think they have to work harder to earn your interest.

The social opener works when opening a girl by herself, a group of girls, a mixed group, or even a group of guys (when you're waiting for one of their female friends to return). The key is that it is friendly, yet non-romantic/sexual.

"What do I say next?" Good question. One thing you could do is have a few pre-planned stories to go into. However, I think it is a better practice to get good at improvising. Speaking on the fly is a very important skill in meeting women. While you are developing this, it will feel awkward as you run out of things to say, but just keep working on it. The more new people you talk to, the easier it will be.

The social opener is probably the easiest and most consistent way to open people, once you are good at it. If people are constantly blowing you off when you use it, there's probably something really off-key with your body language, tonality, or style. Ask a friend for his input on how you look when approaching, and keep practicing. If you open four groups a night using the social opener, you will find this becomes easier and easier each time.

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