Pick Up Lines: "The Opinion Opener

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There are a number of ways to begin talking to women you're interested in and many women you can approach. However, the biggest thing on men's minds is "What do I say?" If you go up and just say "Hi" you can have that awkward pause, as it becomes clear you have nothing else to say and just wanted to meet her. To solve this, the opinion opener was created. This type of opener was popularized by Neil Strauss and Mystery.

The reasons for using the opinion opener are easy to understand. Women are naturally very talkative and opinionated, so asking their opinion will open most of them up. Beyond just saying "Hi," the opinion opener has wrapped into it a conversational topic that can go on for quite a few minutes, of the women are passionate about it.

Here is one example of an opinion opener you can use on some women tonight:

"Hey guys, I just have a minute, but I need a female opinion on something. Do you think if a guy invites a girl to a ball, he should pay for her cover?" Most of the time, they'll say yes.

Continue with "Well get this, my friend invited his girlfriend to a Halloween ball, and she wants him to pay for her ticket, her sister's ticket to tag along, and to reimburse her for her costume. Do you think that's fair?"

Almost always the women will say "Noooo, nooo!" and tell you that he should drop the gold digging bimbo. From there you can go down conversational threads such as how much a woman can expect from her man, and vice versa. You are now in a steady conversation with them. Do not stay on the topic for too long, though. Make sure to move to some other conversation piece or they will get bored and say, "Well, there's your answer."

Other questions could be:

"My cousin is starting a punk rock band and he needs a name for it. What do you think is a better name, The Low Snakes or PowerBuzz?"

"My friend Natasha has been talking to this guy online for like 3 months, had a great connection, and they were going to meet, but she just saw a recent photo of him and he's -ugh looking. What should she do?"

Remember that the key elements of an opinion opener include a normal greeting and a false time constraint. If you say you have to go in a minute, it lets the girls know you're not going to hijack their group all night, and they will open up more.

The opinion opener is best for men just beginning to open women in bars and clubs. Even if your delivery and body language are off, the women will usually answer and talk to you. It can take some time to get used to a new opener, but keep at it, and watch your success go up.

About the Author

There's a lot more to approaching a woman in a club than knowing how to use an opinion opener. That's only the first step! To learn the rest and get some truly phenomenal dating advice go sign up for the free e-course, "Ten Days to Dating Success," a $97 value, at Dating Power Tips.

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<h1>Pick Up Lines: "The Opinion Opener</h1> <p> There are a number of ways to begin talking to women you're interested in and many women you can approach. However, the biggest thing on men's minds is "What do I say?" If you go up and just say "Hi" you can have that awkward pause, as it becomes clear you have nothing else to say and just wanted to meet her. To solve this, the opinion opener was created. This type of opener was popularized by Neil Strauss and Mystery.<br /><br />The reasons for using the opinion opener are easy to understand. Women are naturally very talkative and opinionated, so asking their opinion will open most of them up. Beyond just saying "Hi," the opinion opener has wrapped into it a conversational topic that can go on for quite a few minutes, of the women are passionate about it.<br /><br />Here is one example of an opinion opener you can use on some women tonight:<br /><br />"Hey guys, I just have a minute, but I need a female opinion on something. Do you think if a guy invites a girl to a ball, he should pay for her cover?" Most of the time, they'll say yes.<br /><br />Continue with "Well get this, my friend invited his girlfriend to a Halloween ball, and she wants him to pay for her ticket, her sister's ticket to tag along, and to reimburse her for her costume. Do you think that's fair?"<br /><br />Almost always the women will say "Noooo, nooo!" and tell you that he should drop the gold digging bimbo. From there you can go down conversational threads such as how much a woman can expect from her man, and vice versa. You are now in a steady conversation with them. Do not stay on the topic for too long, though. Make sure to move to some other conversation piece or they will get bored and say, "Well, there's your answer."<br /><br />Other questions could be:<br /><br />"My cousin is starting a punk rock band and he needs a name for it. What do you think is a better name, The Low Snakes or PowerBuzz?"<br /><br />"My friend Natasha has been talking to this guy online for like 3 months, had a great connection, and they were going to meet, but she just saw a recent photo of him and he's -ugh looking. What should she do?"<br /><br />Remember that the key elements of an opinion opener include a normal greeting and a false time constraint. If you say you have to go in a minute, it lets the girls know you're not going to hijack their group all night, and they will open up more.<br /><br />The opinion opener is best for men just beginning to open women in bars and clubs. Even if your delivery and body language are off, the women will usually answer and talk to you. It can take some time to get used to a new opener, but keep at it, and watch your success go up. <h2>About the Author</h2> There's a lot more to approaching a woman in a club than knowing how to use an opinion opener. That's only the first step! To learn the rest and get some truly phenomenal dating advice go sign up for the free e-course, "Ten Days to Dating Success," a $97 value, at <a href="http://datingpowertips.net"">Dating Power Tips</a>. </p>

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