Not Online Dating? You Should, 1 in 3 Women Put Out On 1st Date!
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by: TomasN.Anderson
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Dr. Padgett's research involved seven hundred forty (740) women who had put dating profiles online seeking men. The result of the study: Earthshattering!! Thirty-three percent (33%) of the women daters had sex on the 1st date. Even more shocking, seventy-seven percent (77%) of them didn't use a condom.
Virtual Intimacy Theory Padgett's conclusion was not that these women are merely sluts. Rather she discovered that women who would otherwise be cautious may engage in unprotected sex because they are lulled into a sense of virtual intimacy.
Padgett concludes that "virtual intimacy" was fostered by a high level of disclosure and frequency of e-mail exchanges with the men they eventual slept with on the 1st date. She discovered that before meeting face-to-face, the women exchanged information about their backgrounds, likes & dislikes, and even sexual preferences.
This Padgett says created the "virtual intimacy" a sense that a relationship might or might not exist but may encourage sexual intimacy at a faster rate than what would develop through conventional methods.
So What Does This Mean For Gents? The take home here is: Start Online Dating Today! You'll save money as it's cheaper than going to clubs & bars and you'll get laid on the 1st date 33% of the time. But make sure you use condoms.
My take on Padgett and her study: Her interpretation of the data is overly paternalistic and paints women as helpless creatures taken in by men that create a sphere of "virtual intimacy". Bullshit!
Using Common Sense and Logic to interpret Padgett's study reveals that she is wrong in her conclusions. Women know what they want: An attractive male that meets their dating criteria. They choose one or several from the many that email them. Then they question these candidates and weed out those who don't meet their dating criteria. For that successful candidate who doesn't disqualify himself: It's naked time!
If you really examine what's going on here, you'll realize that it's the women pressing the fast forward button on the sexual relationship. The women in the study (and all online women daters) want to learn as much about a potential mate as possible, whether by email or over the phone before meeting face-to-face.
Why? For one reason: to allow themselves to participate in naked time as soon as possible. When a woman finally convinces herself that a man meets her dating qualifications she will have sex with him. In Padgett's study, the women had decided after reading email and having telephone conversations that they would sleep with their dates on their first meeting because the man in question had met her qualifications or at least enough of them for sex!
Putting Padgett's Study To Work For You. The bottom line here is: women want sex just as much as you do. But, and this is the most important factor I've gleaned from Padgett's study and from my own online dating experiences: Women want to convince themselves that you are a Quality Guy and that you meet their criteria.
A basic misunderstanding of this factor causes so many men to shoot themselves in the foot at this point. They choose to believe that need one or a combination of the following: (a) fame; (b) money; or (c) power to be a dating success. This is just plain false. The secret to my online dating prowess: Being successful with women online means quite simply, not disqualifying yourself. Women have all kinds of questions, yes. Women have dating criteria, yes.
However, women only require that you reply to their questions or hold yourself out in fairly open manner in order for them to say to themselves, "Hey this gentleman seems normal, he's available, and he's mine." At this point, they'll grant themselves permission to have sex with you.
So How Do You Get Women To Give Themselves Permission? Easy, you read my Free Newsletter about the B.O.L.D. Approach and learn how to set up the Perfect Online Dating Profile.
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