How to Flirt With Girls -- 3 Main Approaches
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by: T.P.(PhD)
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Being proactive is nice. You can just say or do something flirty out of the blue.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response for.
Finally, if you're really clever, you can set them up. Do something that will get them to respond in a way that will lead to a great flirting line that you already have prepared.
Here are some examples of each:
ACTIVE FLIRTING: This is the most direct method. You simply take the initiative and do something flirtatious. For instance, you could bump into her, or give her a certain look, or play with innuendos. You take a chance when you're direct, though. If your flirting is cheesy, it can come off as canned. But if she's in the right frame of mind it can show an attractive kind of confidence.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you've already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it's easier to be prepared. Here's an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say "Oh, you don't have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]". The downside is that she doesn't always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don't want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like "so, what makes you so special?" Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book "Flirting Deconstructed".
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